TRIM Forgiveness Inventory

TRIM Forgiveness Inventory
Transgression-Related Interpersonal Motivations Scale (TRIM-12)
MaCullough et al.‚ 1998
 
____ I’ll make him/her pay.
____ I wish that something bad would happen to him/her.
____ I want him/her to get what he/she deserves.
____ I’m going to get even.
____ I want to see him/her hurt and miserable.
____ I keep as much distance between us as possible.
____ I live as if he/she doesn’t exist isn’t around.
____ I don’t trust him/her.
____ I find it difficult to act warmly toward him/her.
____ I avoid him/her.
____ I cut off the relationship with him/her.
____ I withdrew from him/her
I’ll make him/her pay.
I am trying to keep as much distance between us as possible.
Even though his/her actions hurt me‚ I have goodwill for him/her.
I wish that something bad would happen to him/her.
I am living as if he/she doesn’t exist‚ isn’t around.
I want us to bury the hatchet and move forward with our relationship.
I don’t trust him/her.
Despite what he/she did‚ I want us to have a positive relationship again.
I want him/her to get what he/she deserves.
I am finding it difficult to act warmly toward him/her.
I am avoiding him/her.
Although he/she hurt me‚ I am putting the hurts aside so we could resume our relationship.
I’m going to get even.
I forgive him/her for what he/she did to me.
I cut off the relationship with him/her.
I have released my anger so I can work on restoring our relationship to health.
I want to see him/her hurt and miserable.
I withdraw from him/her.
 
a = Strongly Disagree‚ b = Disagree‚ c = Neutral‚ d = Agree‚ e = Strongly Agree
Avoidance Motivation: 2‚ 4‚ 5‚ 7‚ 8‚ and 12
Revenge Motivation: 1‚ 3‚ 6‚ 9‚ and 11
 

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Michael E. McCullough‚ Lindsey M. Root‚ and Adam D. Cohen. (2006). Writing About the Benefits of an Interpersonal Transgression Facilitates Forgiveness. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology‚ 74‚ No. 5‚ 887–897