The RSQ contains 30 short statements drawn from Hazan and Shaver’s (1987) attachment measure‚ Bartholomew and Horowitz’s (1991) Relationship Questionnaire‚ and Collins and Read’s (1990) Adult Attachment Scale. On a 5-point scale‚ participants rate the extent to which each statement best describes their characteristic style in close relationships. Five statements contribute to the secure and dismissing attachment patterns and four statements contribute to the fearful and preoccupied attachment patterns (if you click on the above Relationship Scales Questionnaire link‚ the items that correspond to each attachment pattern are listed at the end of the measure). Scores for each attachment pattern are derived by taking the mean of the four or five items representing each attachment prototype.
Not at all like me | Somewhat like me | Very much like me | ||||
1. | I find it difficult to depend on other people. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
2. | It is very important to me to feel independent. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
3. | I find it easy to get emotionally close to others. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
4. | I want to merge completely with another person. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
5. | I worry that I will be hurt if I allows myself to become too close to others. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
6. | I am comfortable without close emotional relationships. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
7. | I am not sure that I can always depend on others to be there when I need them. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
8. | I want to be completely emotionally intimate with others. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
9. | I worry about being alone. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
10. | I am comfortable depending on other people. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
11. | I often worry that romantic partners don’t really love me. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
12. | I find it difficult to trust others completely. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
13. | I worry about others getting too close to me. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
14. | I want emotionally close relationships. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
15. | I am comfortable having other people depend on me. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
16. | I worry that others don’t value me as much as I value them. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
17. | People are never there when you need them. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
18. | My desire to merge completely sometimes scares people away. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
19. | It is very important to me to feel self-sufficient. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
20. | I am nervous when anyone gets too close to me. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
21. | I often worry that romantic partners won’t want to stay with me. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
22. | I prefer not to have other people depend on me. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
23. | I worry about being abandoned. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
24. | I am somewhat uncomfortable being close to others. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
25. | I find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
26. | I prefer not to depend on others. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
27. | I know that others will be there when I need them. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
28. | I worry about having others not accept me. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
29. | Romantic partners often want me to be closer than I feel comfortable being. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
30. | I find it relatively easy to get close to others. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
Cite this article
mohammad looti (2026). Relationship Scales Questionnaire (RSQ). PSYCHOLOGICAL SCALES. Retrieved from https://scales.arabpsychology.com/s/relationship-scales-questionnaire-rsq/
mohammad looti. "Relationship Scales Questionnaire (RSQ)." PSYCHOLOGICAL SCALES, 25 Apr. 2026, https://scales.arabpsychology.com/s/relationship-scales-questionnaire-rsq/.
mohammad looti. "Relationship Scales Questionnaire (RSQ)." PSYCHOLOGICAL SCALES, 2026. https://scales.arabpsychology.com/s/relationship-scales-questionnaire-rsq/.
mohammad looti (2026) 'Relationship Scales Questionnaire (RSQ)', PSYCHOLOGICAL SCALES. Available at: https://scales.arabpsychology.com/s/relationship-scales-questionnaire-rsq/.
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