Obsessive Relational Intrusion Scale – ORI

Measures the frequency and nature of unwanted relationship pursuit and stalking behaviors experienced by an individual.

63 Questions

~16 min

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Instructions

Please indicate how often each of the following behaviors has happened to you since the age of 18 by selecting the appropriate rating.

0 Never

1 Once since the age of 18

2 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18)

3 Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18)

4 Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

1

Called and argued with you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

2

Would call and hang up without answering

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

3

Told others you two were more intimate than you currently were

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

4

Spied on you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

5

Threatened you with physical harm

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

6

Made vague warnings that bad things would happen to you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

7

Accused you of 'sleeping around'

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

8

Exposed him- or herself to you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

9

Increased contact with your family members to stay involved

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

10

Called a radio station and devoted song requests to you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

11

Showed up before or after your work

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

12

Cluttered your e-mail with frequent messages

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

13

Drove by your house or work

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

14

Engaged in excessive self-disclosure

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

15

Performed large favors for you without your request or permission

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

16

Constantly asked for another chance

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

17

Waited in a car near where you were

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

18

Accused you of somehow being unfaithful

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

19

Made exaggerated claims of his/her affection for you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

20

Watched or stared at you from a distance

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

21

Complained to you about how you ruined her/his life

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

22

Followed you while you were carrying on a walking conversation

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

23

Asked you if you were seeing someone

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

24

Waited outside your place

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

25

Used third parties to 'spy' or keep tabs on you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

26

Sent you offensive photographs

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

27

Made obscene phone calls to you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

28

Sent you unwanted cards or letters

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

29

Recorded conversations with you without your knowledge

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

30

Warned that bad things would or might happen

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

31

Left notes on your car windshield

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

32

Told you to stop doing certain things

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

33

Gossiped or bragged about your relationship to others

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

34

Went through your private things when in your room

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

35

Left you written messages in or at your residence

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

36

Tried to argue with you in public places

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

37

Called at all times of the day or night to check on you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

38

Knocked on your window when not expected

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

39

Used profanity and obscene names in reference to you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

40

Sent you unwanted gifts

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

41

Argued with you about your relationship with other people

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

42

Made things up about your past relationship

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

43

Sent you threatening notes, letters, or messages

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

44

Refused to take hints that s/he wasn't welcome

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

45

Showed up before or after your classes

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

46

Left frequent messages on your answering machine

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

47

Took photographs of you without your previous knowledge

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

48

Claimed to still be in an intimate relationship with you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

49

Inappropriately touched you in an intimate way

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

50

Spread false rumors or gossip about you to your friends

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

51

Described acts of sex to you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

52

Waited around near your conversation with another person

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

53

Constantly apologized for past wrongs done

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

54

Visited you at work

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

55

Checked up on you through mutual acquaintances

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

56

Followed you from place to place

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

57

Called you while you were working

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

58

Mailed or left gifts you had previously given him/her

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

59

Physically shoved, slapped, or hit you

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

60

Joined you uninvited while conversing with others

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

61

Forced you to engage in sexual behavior against your will

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

62

Damaged or destroyed property or possessions of yours

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

63

Broke into your home or apartment

Never Once since the age of 18 Rarely (2 to 4 times since the age of 18) Sometimes (5 to 9 times since the age of 18) Frequently (more than 10 times since the age of 18)

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