Central Relationship Questionnaire – CRQ 6.0

Measures relational wishes, perceived partner responses, and self-responses in romantic relationships based on the Core Conflictual Relationship Theme (CCRT) framework.

107 Questions

~27 min

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About You

Please provide the following information before starting the assessment. This data is used for research purposes only and will remain confidential.

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Instructions

Please think about your various interactions with your romantic partner (a person you have been romantically and sexually involved with for at least 3 months in the past three years) and rate the following items. For the general characteristics, rate how applicable they are. For the wishes, partner responses, and self-responses, rate how typical they are/were when the relationship is/was at its worst.

1 Never true of me / Not at all

2 Rarely

3 Occasionally

4 Sometimes

5 Often

6 Very often

7 Always true of me / Extremely

1

How close is or was this person to you?

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

2

How intimate a relationship do you have, or did you have, with this person?

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

3

How much of an authority figure is or was this person for you?

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

4

How important is or was this person to you?

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

5

How enjoyable is or was the relationship at its best?

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

6

How difficult is or was the relationship at its worst?

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

7

I wish for my partner to know I am loyal

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

8

I would like my partner to enjoy her/himself

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

9

I wish to be my own person

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

10

I wish for my partner not to desert me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

11

I wish to confide in my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

12

I would like to hurt my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

13

I wish to be dependent on my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

14

I wish to be distant

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

15

I wish for my partner not to leave me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

16

I wish to control my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

17

I wish to be a special person to my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

18

I wish for my partner to respond to me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

19

I want my partner to be sexually excited by me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

20

I wish to defy my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

21

I wish to connect with my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

22

I would like my partner to feel proud of her/his accomplishments

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

23

I wish for my partner to recognize my opinion

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

24

I wish to be trusted by my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

25

I wish for my partner to pay attention to me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

26

I wish to support my partner when she/he is in pain

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

27

I wish to dominate my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

28

I wish for my partner to be interested in me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

29

I would like my partner to feel at ease

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

30

I wish not to open up

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

31

I wish to avoid my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

32

I wish to be admired by my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

33

I wish for my partner not to abandon me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

34

I wish for my partner to find me attractive

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

35

I wish to encourage my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

36

I wish to be loved

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

37

I wish to do my own thing

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

38

I want my partner to make me sexually excited

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

39

I wish to make my partner mad

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

40

I wish for my partner to feel I am faithful

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

41

I wish to be dominated

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

42

I wish to be independent

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

43

I wish to be emotionally close to my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

44

I wish to let my partner make decisions for me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

45

I would like to help my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

46

I wish to have power over my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

47

My partner is her/his own person

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

48

My partner desires me sexually

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

49

My partner is submissive

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

50

My partner withdraws

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

51

My partner cares for me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

52

My partner dominates me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

53

My partner is out of control

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

54

My partner is emotionally close to me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

55

My partner is frantic

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

56

My partner makes her/his own decisions

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

57

My partner has power over me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

58

My partner hurts me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

59

My partner is compliant

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

60

My partner is distant

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

61

My partner feels I am a special person

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

62

My partner controls me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

63

My partner acts irrationally

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

64

My partner rejects me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

65

My partner is independent

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

66

My partner treats me badly

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

67

My partner does not open up

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

68

My partner readily defers to me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

69

My partner is sexually attracted to me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

70

I feel respected by my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

71

I encourage my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

72

I achieve at work or school

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

73

I feel unsure about our relationship

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

74

I avoid difficulties with my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

75

I have power over my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

76

I feel rejected

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

77

I am independent

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

78

I accomplish my goals

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

79

I do not open up

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

80

I desire my partner sexually

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

81

I feel disliked

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

82

I am submissive

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

83

I feel my partner is important to me

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

84

I distance myself

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

85

I am dominated

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

86

I feel torn about my relationship with my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

87

I give to my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

88

I avoid getting into conflicts with my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

89

I share my feelings

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

90

I am confused by my relationship with my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

91

I am my own person

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

92

I feel mistreated

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

93

I act maturely

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

94

I feel competent

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

95

I avoid problems with my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

96

I feel held in high esteem by my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

97

I feel accepted by my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

98

I feel uncomfortable

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

99

I control my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

100

I dominate my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

101

I am not emotionally close

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

102

I connect with my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

103

I express my thoughts, feelings, and wishes

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

104

I am self-sufficient

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

105

I am controlled by my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

106

I am nervous

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

107

I am sexually excited by my partner

Never true of me / Not at all Rarely Occasionally Sometimes Often Very often Always true of me / Extremely

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