Handling Bullying Questionnaire – HBQ

I would insist that the bully "cut it out."

I would treat the matter lightly.

I would make sure the bully was suitably punished.

I would discuss the matter with my colleagues at school.

I would convene a meeting of students, including the bully or bullies, tell them what was happening, and ask them to suggest ways they could help improve the situation.

I would tell the victim to stand up to the bully.

I would make it clear to the bully that his or her behavior would not be tolerated.

I would leave it for someone else to sort out.

I would share my concern with the bully about what happened to the victim, and seek to get the bully to behave in a more caring and responsible manner.

I would let the students sort it out themselves.

I would suggest that the victim act more assertively.

I would discuss with the bully options from which he or she could make a choice in order to improve the situation.

I would ask the school counsellor to intervene.

I would refer the matter to an administrator (e.g., principal, vice-principal, dean).

I would contact the victim's parents or guardians to express my concern about their child’s well-being.

I would just tell the kids to "grow up."

I would encourage the victim to show that he or she could not be intimidated.

I would ignore it.

I would help the bully achieve greater self-esteem so that he or she would no longer want to bully anyone.

I would insist to the parent(s) or guardian(s) of the bully that the behaviour must stop.

I would find the bully something more interesting to do.

I would advise the victim to tell the bully to "back off."